We experience failure directly or indirectly.
Here we will come to know about the meaning and the mighty types
and reasons of any failure.
All failures have emotional aspects which colors
the person's reaction to this failure and to the situation in
which failure occurred. While personal reactions are different
to predict the common reactions are self-negation, self affirmation,
the use of defense mechanism, motivation, expectation for future
success and changing goals. Failure is always ego-deflating
and thus effects the personality unfavorably.
There are two types of failure : A] SUBJECTIVE
and B] OBJECTIVE
A] SUBJECTIVE FAILURE:- In this, person believes
that he failed because he as not measured up to his own hopes
and expectations and this has a more damaging effects
B] OBJECTIVE FAILURE :- This failure is judged
by others which becomes more damaging when judgment is made
by person who are important to the individual.
Now let me clarify the reasons by considering
above types of failure these are as follows.
1] Unfavorable environmental influence During
Childhood |- This is the most dangerous reason than any other
reasons epically in the home, if child is always criticized,
discouraged, nagged, overprotected and has improper - a] Love
n affection, b]imbalanced & improper motivation, encouragement,
inspiration & determination. When child lacks in these areas
he will definitely have problems with - Targets(goals), will-power,
endurance, persistence, sustainability & tolerance; Which
are the basic elements to have success or failure and if child
has problems in these areas then more problems will occurs in
professional, personal & social life & career - That's
why its most dangerous.
2] ILL HEALTH |- Over-eating, wrong eating
habits, Smoking, drinking, tobacco and so on ; these things
damages the nerves and gastrical coordination and hence every
body part gets affected badly and at times very slowly.
3] Procrastination |- It means that the person
always thinks that "right time will come." forget, time will
never be, just do it right now, start where you stand, work
whatever you can or whatever tools you have. In other words
procrastination is the ability to put things off or not able
to take initiatives. Procrastinated person is not a poor starter
actually he doesn't start anything.
4] LACK OF PERSISTENCE |- Means lacking in
endurance- sustenance and patience area. We know people who
are good starters & poor finishers or trying multiple this
several times. It has no substitute and are prone to defeat.
5] INDECISION |- Its inability to take decisions
or fail to take decisions. Procrastination & indecision
are twin brothers and work together.
6] SELF-DECEIT |- Here, people are very indifferent
or lazy to acquire facts with which they require to think accurately;
these peoples prefer to acts on their own opinion created by
guesswork without any judgment & this is bad for success
and decisions.
7] Other common reasons are -a] Lack of ambition
b] Insufficient knowledge, education and discipline, c] over
caution, prejudice, intolerance, wrong selection, vanity, ego-dominance,
criticism, hatred, lack of enthusiasm & efforts.
If you are a parent please think seriously
on reason first coz it's a root and the base element and what
ever you are think it all.
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Name : NIlesh B Gore Profession : Graphologist(Hndwriting
Analyst) & SW. Eng. Email:ng411002@rediffmail.com Web :
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Ms Copyrights : © Nilesh B Gore. Author has written for HRD
TIMES, newspapers (Sakal) and his articles had been published
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