To be clear about what
success is must be the first step to achieving success.
So far, the best definition I have come across
is: "Success is the completion of anything intended." In other
words success is finishing what you planned to do.
Even robbing a bank is a kind of success if
that is what you wished to do. However, you probably did not
intend to end up in prison!
The above definition of success shines a light
on failure and success. Make a plan and follow it and you will
have succeeded. Make a plan and do not follow it and you will
have failed.
This gives a yard stick for judging every day
of our lives. We can say at the end of the day "I have failed"
or "I have succeeded."
This may seem very obvious but it is amazing
that only about 85% of the human race end up doing what they
intended.
I asked several people what they thought success
was. One person said that "Success is making loads of money."
Another said that success is "Achieving your goals". Some one
else said that success is "Fulfilling your potential". An interesting
answer was that success is "Making others jealous".
Brian Tracy agrees with the connection between
success and goals. He has said "Success is goals, and all else
is commentary." Tracy believes that people with clear, written
goals, accomplish far more in a shorter period of time than
people without them.
Stuart Goldsmith in "The Midas Method" has
an important section on how to set goals so that they are achieved
using the full power of the subconscious mind.
Maria Nemeth gives this definition of success:
"Doing what you said you would do, with ease".
"Doing what you said you would do" is currently
not achieved by the majority of the human race especially politicians!
Doing it with ease is achieved by even fewer and requires making
the most of the subconscious mind.
Jim Rohn argues that success is just a few
simple disciplines practised daily.
The power of daily discipline is HUGE. Because
the discipline is practised daily the effect is cumulative.
The good practice is carried out 365 times a year with, perhaps,
a few lapses.
It cannot fail to have tremendous influence.
Once the discipline becomes a daily habit, it can be forgotten
about until the rewards start coming in.
The writer who writes every day has written
well over 300 pages by the end of the year. If he or she does
not write every day they lose momentum and inspiration. If they
keep up the writing (even just a few words a day) a magnet for
relevant thoughts develops.
Recently a Liverpool student of American media
studies applied for 600 jobs and received only one interview
which he failed. He decided to write a novel. He determined
to complete ten pages a day. He worked in the evenings at a
dead end job to make money and then wrote until about 5 in the
morning at his novel which has now become famous. It also looks
like becoming a Hollywood blockbuster film.
He points out that if you write only one page
a day for 100 days you can write a screen play. He wrote his
novel by studying the structure of two other novels and noticing
how they were structured and wrote his screenplay after studying
video of films and noticing how long each scene lasted before
there was a change.
I can't remember his name or the name of his
book as I just happened to hear part of his interview on television.
The practice of daily disciplines alone can
change our lives totally. Another benefit of daily disciplines
is that they quickly create habits and habits create character.
A great quote by Jim Ryun, the American Athlete,
is as follows
"Motivation is what gets you started. Habit
is what keeps you going"
Another brilliant quote is:
"Try not to become a man of success but rather
try to become a man of value."
Albert Einstein
The next quote says more or less the same thing:
"Success usually comes to those who are too
busy to be looking for it." Henry David Thoreau
Many would argue that success is not about
making money but about developing oneself into a person who
is valuable to others.
However, this quite often will lead to making
money because people will pay for value. Any one who is very
good at their job can usually command whatever pay they wish.
Adam Hollioake is one of the most successful
English county cricket captains. He realised what is important
in life when his brother Ben was killed in a car accident in
Perth Australia. Adam learned that he should be kind to people
and have fun and "that's what life is about."
His view of success in cricket is not necessarily
winning. He is not afraid to lose a cricket match. He is only
concerned that his team put 100% effort into the game. He comments:
"If we do put that effort in we usually win
anyway".
Success then is putting in 100% effort whatever
the results. More often than not, however, the results will
be excellent.
Michael Angier has a great definition of success.
"Success is the result of steadily taking action
on our most important goals. When we consistently focus our
energies and our efforts upon what matters most, we can't help
but be successful".
Angier also admires Ralph Waldo Emerson's comments
on success:
"To laugh often and much; to win the respect
of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn
the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of
false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better, whether by healthy child, a
garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one
life has breathed easier because you have lived; this is to
have succeeded."
What are the causes of failure and success?
William James, the great American psychologist,
puts failure down to lack of faith in one self
"There is but one cause of human failure. And
that is man's lack of faith in his true self."
Faith in one self is a huge part of success.
Stuart Goldsmith in "The Midas Method" talks about two kinds
of belief that are necessary for success. You must believe that
you deserve to succeed and you must believe that you have the
ability to succeed.
Another big cause of success is discipline.
"The ability to discipline yourself to delay
gratification in the short term in order to enjoy greater rewards
in the long term is the indispensable prerequisite for success."
Brian Tracy
Another cause is the willingness to try to
succeed even if the possiblity of success is remote.
"Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations.
I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty,
believe in them and try to follow where they lead."
Louisa May Alcott (1832-1888) American Writer
My computer guru, Danny believes that you should
hold on to your dream in all circumstances and never let go.
Grab hold of your vision with an iron fist and even if you are
down on your luck and in the gutter never give up.
Danny himself has held on to a dream for 22
years. His dream is to develop the best languages translator
in the world.
It does not matter if you are 72 - grab hold
of your dream. Actually visualize your hand holding on to that
dream. Too many people are worn down by life and give up their
dreams.
Every dream is personal but the principle is
the same. You are an idiot if you let go. You have to have a
reason for living. Set yourself a goal and never let go until
you die.
There is nothing you can't do. If you can't
swim 10 lengths without a rest, train for a few months and you
will be able to swim 50 lengths.
Danny's comments about swimming reminded me
about how little is taught at school about how training can
improve your abilities.
At my school in the Isle of Man, there was
an annual half mile swim in the sea. I knew I would drown if
I attempted this but no one ever suggested that I start training
hard so that I would be capable of completing the swim.
I was just classified as someone who could
not do the swim. It did not occur to me that through determined
training I would be able to do what I could not previously do.
When Danny was young he was a skinny weakling.
But one day he decided that this was not a good thing. He filled
out and did some weight training and set up his own fitness,
strength and flexibility routine.
He performs this every other day. This avoids
the boredom of a daily routine. He does 200 situps, 30-50 leg
raises and three or four sets of 20-30 bench presses.
He also does 2 sets of 20 or 30 squats with
dumbells to develop leg power. The dumbbells avoid the danger
of overbalancing with a barbell across your shoulders. There
is also little likelihood that you will drop the dumbbells on
children or family pets! Dumbells allow for greater control
than barbells.
Danny's advice for success is to do something.
If in doubt, read a book. The worst thing you can do is sit
on your backside watching TV. If you do, nothing will ever happen.
He notes the hypnotic effect of TV on the spectators. Danny
seldom ever watches TV.
Danny also is impressed by Arnold Schwarzenegger
who has just been elected Governor of California. If Arnold
wants something, he does what is necessary to get that thing.
If he had to eat 50 mars bars, he would eat them. If he had
to stand stark naked on his head in a field for half an hour
he would.
This is an example to us all. If you have to
put stamps on thousands of envelopes to send out your direct
mail sales letters, you just have to do it.
The basic principle is that you have to do
what is required. Some things require certain actions to achieve
them and you have to do them whether you like doing them or
not.
It is no good saying I want to be Governor
of California but I don't want to do any public speaking or
travel on the campaign trail or be friendly to thousands of
people you don't like. You have to pick up babies and smile
at people you may not like.
If you want to be rich you have to do those
things which will make you rich. It's no good saying "I don't
really want to do it." Danny gives himself a virtual smack round
the head every time he is tempted to give up on his projects.
Some people think they will make money by taking
short cuts like suing people or fraud. The world would be a
much better place if people just got on with doing what they
had to do.
Many successful people stress the importance
of action in achieving success.
Michael Masterson of the Ezine "Early to Rise"
writes:"Action is the key to success, and failure to act is
the reason most people will never achieve the kind of success
they dream about"
Another approach to achieving success is to
stay cool about it. Just get on with doing what you think is
important and what you love to do.
"Don't aim for success if you want it; just
do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally."
Sir David Frost
Elvis Presley gave his cousin Donna some advice
to help her achieve her goals for the future. It seems good
advice to me:
Donna's best memory of Elvis was when she was
18 and she spoke to him one on one. He asked her about her plans
for the future and told her she could achieve anything she wanted
"so long as you have faith in God;have faith in yourself; work
hard and never let anyone tell you, you can't do something".
Elvis himself had plenty of discouragement
which he successfully ignored. The later part of his life was
not too successful but as Donna commented, we should focus on
what he did achieve which was amazing.
Peter Vidmar explains how he achieved success
at the Olympic Games:
"There's only two things I had to do to win
the Olympic gold: Train when I wanted to, and train when I didn't."
This is possibly my favourite quote of all
time. It sums up the essence of success and the will power and
discipline necessary to achieve it. Sometimes training will
be easy but sometimes it will take effort because one really
does not feel like training. This is simple and beautifully
easy to understand.
Another quote I like is concerned with the
kind of success which depends on people liking your work or
product. Don't worry about whether they will like your work.
Just do your best and leave the liking or disliking up to them.
"Success has a simple formula: 'Do your best
and people may like it'".
Sam Ewing
Any success involves some kind of cost; usually
some boring work is involved as suggested in the following quote.
The word 'drudgery' sums this kind of work up exactly. Almost
any kind of business involves marketing and marketing is the
last thing many businessmen enjoy doing.
"Success is the child of drudgery and perseverance.
It cannot be coaxed or bribed; pay the price and it is yours".
Orison Swett Marden, 1850-1924.
Mike Litman comes up with golden statements
frequently. Here is just one of them:
"The biggest secret of success in life is:
You don't have to get it right; you just have to get it going.
Perfectionism can kill success. We never get going because we
are always waiting to get everything just right. Instead, let's
get going."
One success breeds another. Bobby Robson, now
over 70, is one of Britain's most successful managers. He should
know what creates success. He recently commented about his team's
performances:
"Success breeds success"
This makes sense. Write one successful book
and you will have the confidence to write another. A lady over
70 wrote a book about overcoming the pain of arthritis. It was
a huge success to her total amazement and made hundreds of thousands
of dollars. Not surprisingly she has now written two more books.
Success is a key goal for most people but it
helps to have a clear idea of what success means to you. I hope
this article will have shed some light on possible definitions
of success and provided some ideas about how you can achieve
your kind of success. 2500
John Watson is an info publisher on the internet
and a martial arts school owner. He taught Religious Studies
and Life Skills to teenagers in London schools for about 33
years before retiring in 2000 A.D. His own e-books and those
of the English multimillionaire, Stuart Goldsmith, can be found
on his site at http://www.motivationtoday.com/